Schedule & Event Details

Event Information

We’ll kick off our second biennial summit with a party! Our amazing MC will keep us on track and entertained throughout the conference. We have two fun evenings with a movie night and gathering not to forget. All are welcome, please invite your significant other and family.

  • Thursday, March 19th we have early registration starting at 4:00pm with time to mix and mingle, enjoy hors d’oeuvre, and mingle with exhibitors. Cash bar too. The night’s entertainment hosted by Lauren LoGiudice which includes open mic with members of our community interspersed between three comedians from our NPE, DCP, and adoptee communities. 
  • Friday, March 20th begins with our opening ceremony and a discussion around language and trauma with Leslie Pate Mackinnon, LCSW. We’ll have our speaker forums next, then lunch, speaker panels, snack, and will finish off with small affinity support group discussions. We’ll end the day with a special gathering.
  • Saturday, March 21st kicks off with our keynote plenary panel representing experiences from the three communities. We’ll then head to our fabulous array of creative workshops with lunch breaking this session up. We have speaker forums, snack, and then speaker panels. This evening we’ll have a movie night.
  • Sunday, March 22nd we have a treat for you with an amazing keynote speaker. We will reflect and rejuvenate with a closing activity. Check out is at noon.

Start each morning with a little relaxation time before breakfast. During lunch and breaks, meet new folks, reconnect with friends, or engage with authors, tik-tok-ers, podcasters, community leaders, and our exhibitors. Our quiet room is available with volunteer mental health professionals for those moments when you may need a space to take a break. 

We can’t wait to see you!

Registration – Thursday

Thursday 3/19

4:00pm-7:00pm | Heritage Ball Room Pre-Funcation Area

Drop by and check-in for the conference. Pick up your name tag, schedule, buy a raffle ticket or T-shirt, and build a goodie bag. Hang out and meet friends in person. (The registration table will be open every morning at 8:00am)

Additional Info

NAAP, RTK, and DNAngels are excited to kick-off our second annual Summit. We are here to unite the adoption, assisted reproduction, and non-paternal event communities into one amplified voice; advance awareness and education; seek truth and healing; and foster connections and understanding. We know together we stand stronger.

Presented by

avatar Barbara Robertson, LMSW

Barbara Robertson, LMSW

NAAP Board Member

 Barbara Robertson, LMSW, is an Ohio-born, New York Adoptee. She always knew that she was adopted. However, she was raised during the “closed records” era, when identifying biological information was lawfully inaccessible to her. 

Her life changed when she received a copy of her Original Birth Certificate (OBC) after updated Ohio legislation took effect in March 2015. Since then, she has been able to discover her origins and establish contact with both sides of her family. 

Barbara is a strong advocate for adoptee rights, devoting her time providing online education and support to all members of the adoption constellation worldwide. 

To this end, Barbara currently serves as a Co-Facilitator for Adoption Network Cleveland’s (ANC) monthly Virtual Webcam General Discussion Meeting. She serves as a Board Member of the National Association of Adoptees & Parents (NAAP), a 501 (c)3 nonprofit organization founded by Marcie Keithley and Jennifer Fahlsing in 2021. 

Barbara has also written a piece for the Dear Adoption blog and is a contributing author to the book, Black Anthology: Adult Adoptees Claim Their Space, edited by Susan Harris O’Connor, MSW; Diane Rene Christian; & Mei-Mei Akwai Ellerman, PHD. 

Barbara is a New York based Social Worker who provides trauma aware general therapy as part of a private practice. Her lived experience growing up as an adoptee combined with graduating from the accredited Training for Adoption Competency (TAC) through the Center for Adoption Support and Education (C.A.S.E.) allows Barbara to help others navigate through complex journeys towards effective healing. 

avatar Beth Steury

Beth Steury

NAAP Treasurer

Beth currently serves as treasurer for NAAP. She brings a background in administration, bookkeeping, event planning, marketing, community relations, and writing to NAAP’s passionate commitment to serve all persons touched by adoption.

While she spent most of her life on the sidelines of the adoption community, the unfolding of her own foundling-beginnings story awakened a desire to be involved beyond her personal experiences. As a search angel, she delves into DNA to pay forward to other adoptees the gift of finding long-searched-for answers. Her sometimes overwhelming, always intriguing, and oft emotional journey to find and connect with biological family is chronicled at BethSteury.com. She also addresses relevant topics in her fiction and non-fiction series for young adults. Beth and her husband reside in Indiana

avatar Brad Ewell

Brad Ewell

RTK Secretary

Brad is a police officer in the Dallas, Texas area. He is married and has three children. For the first 48 years of his life, Brad believed he was raised by his biological family. That changed in 2019 when someone he matched from an Ancestry DNA test contacted him. In less than 24 hours Brad became a Late Discovery Adoptee with a MPE. Since that time he is in reunion with several biological family members including his biological father and four siblings. He is passionate about the right of every person to know their true genetic identity. While he knows his biological history, he still has to go to court if he wants to have his records unsealed. Brad has written essays and an article for Severance Magazine and is currently working on other essays and a memoir. You can find him on Instagram @a_late_discovery.

avatar Debbie Smith-Olson

Debbie Smith-Olson

RTK Director of Support & DNA Surprise Network

Debbie Olson is a Certified Life Coach, founder of DNA Surprise Network and co-founder of DNA Surprise Retreat, and a member of the Right to Know board. She helps others navigate life’s path after having a DNA Surprise, having experienced her own. Debbie is a former paralegal with over 20 years of experience in that field.  Possessing skills of empathy, understanding, and great communication, she is an ideal person to work with. She believes no matter where you are now, it is where you desire to be that is most important. 

Debbie was raised believing her biological father did not want her, and eventually she was told he was deceased. After taking an over-the-counter DNA test, she matched with an unknown half-sister in 2019. With this connection, she learned her biological father was alive, and had in fact looked for her.  

Debbie is an advocate for animals serving on the board of East Idaho Spay Neuter Coalition and is a key player in the Snake River Animal Shelter’s biggest yearly fundraiser. Both are nonprofit 501(c)3 organizations that help save animals lives. 

Debbie can be found on Instagram and Facebook at DNA Surprise Network or at DNASurpriseNetwork.com.  

avatar Jennifer Fahlsing

Jennifer Fahlsing

NAAP Co-founder & President

Jennifer is the co-founder and President of the National Association of Adoptees and Parents, Inc (NAAP). Prior to retiring in 2021 she worked for over twenty years in the employment industry and was also a licensed real estate broker in Northeast Indiana. She holds a Bachelor of Science in Business Management and an Associate of Science in Accounting. Her background includes education, training, sales, operations, and public speaking. She is actively involved with several organizations and has served on numerous nonprofit boards including Hoosiers for Equal Access to Records and Indiana Adoptee Network. 

Jennifer is an Adoptee and First Mother which provides her with a unique understanding of the challenges involved in search and the gamut of emotions experienced in reunion. In 2013, after three decades of searching, she located both her mother and son within a 3-month period. In 2018, after years of rejection she finally reunited with her father days before his death.

A 2014 Huffington Post article was written, by Claudia Corrigan D’Arcy, about her struggle to obtain a Passport; US Adoptees Have Trouble Getting Passports Due to Seal Records Law. Jennifer was the recipient of the Angel in Adoption award in 2018.

Jennifer has been married to Michael for 41 years and they have four children, ten grandchildren, and one great granddaughter. They are passionate travelers and adventure seekers, who believe in making every moment count, especially their time spent with family.

avatar Kara Rubinstein Deyerin, JD, LLM

Kara Rubinstein Deyerin, JD, LLM

RTK Founder & President

Kara was born and raised in Seattle, Washington. She married her high-school sweetheart and together they traveled for a number of years before attending college. Kara went on to receive a BA, MA, a law degree from the George Washington University, and later a LLM from the University of Washington. Her husband and sons constantly keep her on her toes. Any moment of free quiet time she can find is spent designing, reading, and cooking; but storytelling is her passion. 

In January 2018, she wanted to see where in Africa her father’s family came from. Her over-the-counter DNA test revealed she was 50% something, but she had zero African DNA. This meant the man on her birth certificate couldn’t possibly be her genetic father. She lost her bi-racial identity with the click of a mouse. Kara discovered she was 50% Jewish. The DNA pandora’s box she opened led to an identity crisis. Because there were few resources for people with misattributed parentage experiences, she co-founded Right to Know, a nonprofit organization dedicated to advancing the fundamental human right to know your genetic identity through education, mental health initiatives, and advocacy. 

Kara is leading advocate for genetic identity rights and people impacted by misattributed parentage. She has appeared on many podcasts, in multiple television interviews and articles, and has been a frequent speaker on her DNA surprise, the right to know, and the complex intersection of genetic information, identity, and family dynamics. She recently published the “My Re-Birthday Book: This is My Story: for adoptees, donor conceived, and people with an NPE, who are misattributed, or who’ve had a DNA surprise” and “Cinematic Roots: Explore Assisted Reproduction, Adoption, NPE, and DNA Surprise Terms Through Movies.”

avatar Sheridan Anderson, MA, LPCC 

Sheridan Anderson, MA, LPCC 

RTK Director of Resourses & Sliding Doors Counseling

Sheridan Anderson (she/her), a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and trained family mediator, is the heart behind Sliding Doors Counseling

Her journey into the world of high-conflict relationships, life transitions, and DNA surprises is not just professional—it’s deeply personal. Growing up, she believed her father had died by suicide, a narrative that shaped her early life. However, a DNA test in 2018 revealed a different truth: the man she thought was her father wasn’t her biological parent. This revelation reshaped Sheridan’s understanding of mental health and identity, fueling her passion to help others on similar paths.

Sheridan has shared her insights on DNA podcasts and as a public speaker, addressing topics such as the impact of perceived genetic history on personal identity and her own mental health journey and the importance of coping skills to manage anxiety. She is also on the RTK board.

Sheridan is also a regular human—sometimes anxious, occasionally awkward, and mostly funny. For more insights and updates, follow Sheridan on Instagram @slidingdoorscounseling and on Facebook at Sliding Doors Counseling. 

avatar Laura Olmsted

Laura Olmsted

DNAngels Founder & Director

Laura Olmsted is a world-renowned genetic genealogist and the Founder and Executive Director of DNAngels, a nonprofit organization dedicated to reuniting individuals with their biological families through the power of DNA. Since launching DNAngels in 2019, Laura has led the organization to astonishing success, with over 7,000 cases solved to date—a number expected to exceed 8,000 by the end of 2025 and reach 10,000 by Christmas 2026.

Laura’s passion for genealogy began as a family project inspired by her Aunt Shirley. While creating a heritage book for her grandchildren, she took a DNA test—and discovered a life-altering truth: the man she believed to be her father was not her biological parent. Determined to uncover her origins, Laura immersed herself in genetic genealogy. Within two weeks, she identified her biological father and, in doing so, experienced firsthand the complex emotional terrain that Not Parent Expected (NPE) individuals, adoptees, and the donor-conceived often face.

What started as a personal journey quickly grew into a mission to help others. Laura founded DNAngels to provide free, compassionate support to those seeking answers about their biological parentage. Under her leadership, DNAngels has grown from a volunteer initiative into a nationally recognized nonprofit that consistently solves complex cases with speed and sensitivity. In fact, the majority of cases are resolved within a week.

Laura’s expertise and empathy have made her a trusted figure in the world of genetic genealogy. She has helped uncover the truth in high-profile cases, including exposing fertility fraud in Rochester, New York, which garnered national media attention. Her work has been featured in the New York TimesABC News, and the Democrat and Chronicle, among other major outlets.

Drinks, Hor d’oeuvres, & Misfit Variety Show – Thursday

Thursday 3/19

7:00pm-9:00pm+ | Heritage Ball Room Pre-Funcation Area

After you register, mingle with friends, have a drink at the cash bar, grab a bite, and stay for the amazing entertainment – our open mike and Comedy Throw Down with a comedian from each of our communities – NPE, DCP, adoptee.

Additional Info

Want to share your story? Full access attendees are invited to join Untangling Our Root’s presentation of our Comedy Throw Down, where host Lauren LoGiudice will lead the community in sharing their creations, from serious to funny. These can be Moth-style story, a poem, monologue, song, or anything about your journey you want to share. There will also be an opportunity for anonymous audience submissions. 5-minute limit.

Presented by

avatar Lauren LoGiudice

Lauren LoGiudice

Misfit Variety Show

Lauren LoGiudice is an accomplished comedian, actor, and author of Amazon Kindle Best Seller Inside Melania: What I Know About Melania Trump by Impersonating Her. Her work has been featured by The New York Times, BBC, Bust Magazine, McSweeney’s Internet Tendency, Hyperallergic, among others. Her writing has been called “criminal.” Her TV and film credits include Veep, Brave the Dark and Galaxy360. Moth StorySLAM Champ. In addition to her comedy album, Misfits: A Comedy Album you can also hear Melania Trump’s Rockin’ Right-Wing Christmas Album, available on all major streaming platforms.

Lauren delves into deeply flawed and painfully idiosyncratic characters. She has embodied some of the world’s most mysterious cultural icons, including Greta Garbo, Melania Trump, Mary Poppins, and the women in her Italian-American family.

Currently, Lauren continues to work on creating comedy through the lens of her unique personal experience with videos on every platform that will let her while producing her podcast Reconcile the Aisle on Radio Misfits.

She lives in New York City where she downplays every great thing that’s ever happened to her.

Authors, Podcasters, and Exhibitors – Thursday

Thursday 3/19

4:00pm-7:00pm | Heritage Ball Room Pre-Funcation Area

Come meet your favorite author, tik toker, and podcaster or preview what our exhibitors have to offer.

Friday 3/20

Yoga – Friday

Friday 3/20

7:00am-8:00am | TBD

Start off your day by focusing your mind and body to move into a relaxed state before the conference day starts in full swing.

Breakfast & Community – Friday

Friday 3/20

8:00am-9:00am | Heritage Ball Room Pre-Funcation Area

Join us for breakfast and take a few moments to meet other conference attendees and hug old friends

Saturday 3/21

Tai Chi – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

7:00am-8:00am | In a room

Start off your day by focusing your mind and body to move into a relaxed state before the conference day starts in full swing.

Presented by

avatar Theresa Knorr, CARC RCP/f 

Theresa Knorr, CARC RCP/f 

TAI CHI 4 RECOVERY

Theresa (Certified Addiction Recovery Coach, Recovery Coach Professional/facilitator) is an LDA, BSE, adopted person in recovery.  She is the owner of BALANCE Recovery Consultation and creator of “Tai Chi 4 Recovery”.  She currently serves as the Senior Director of Recovery Education and Training for Friends of Recovery – New York, and is registered with the ASAP-NYCB trainer registry

Theresa has over 30 years of professional experience in addiction recovery.  She has worked as a clinician, program director, recovery coach, peer professional trainer and community educator and was a clinical supervisor when she developed TCR.   Theresa co-facilitated Adoptee Paths to Recovery peer support meeting for NAAP with David B. Bohl from 2022-2023.     

She earned her BA in psychology at UAlbany in 1984 and completed holistic medicine and Tai Chi training at Green Mountain Institute; College of Oriental Medicine in 2000.  She is a former substance use disorder counselor in New York (CASAC; 1997 – 2014) and Arizona (CADAC; 2014 -2017). Theresa is a daily practitioner of meditation and has been teaching self -awareness, self-care, meditation, and Tai Chi since 2001.  TaiChi4Recovery@gmail.comFacebook , Instagram , LinkedInYouTubeWEBSITE

Authors, Podcasters, and Exhibitors – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

throughout the day | Pre-function area

Come meet your favorite author, tik tokers, and podcaster or preview what our exhibitors have to offer.

Breakfast & Community – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

8:00am-9:00am | Heritage Ball Room Pre-Funcation Area

Join us for breakfast and take a few moments to meet other conference attendees.

Additional Info

Take a moment to sit with someone new today.

Therapy Room – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

11:00am-5:30pm | Board Room B

Some of the topics we’ll be discussing may be triggering and we want to ensure everyone has a quiet safe space to recoup.

Additional Info

Licensed mental health professionals are volunteering their time to help conference attendees should a topic, discussion, or comment raise uncomfortable or difficult feelings or memories.   

Plenary Speaker Panel – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

9:00am-10:30am | Aurora Ballroom

Join us for an illuminating plenary panel where adoptees, individuals with non-paternity events (NPEs), and donor-conceived persons unfold their narratives. Each panelist offers a 15-minute glimpse into their unique journey, converging on the evolving meaning of family. The session highlights the distinct yet intersecting paths of these communities, followed by an engaging Q&A. Discover the shared threads that bind their experiences, fostering a deep understanding of identity, heritage, and connection in today’s world.

Additional Info

By listening to each other’s journeys we see the commonality in our experiences. We can learn from each other. Together we can support each other in our healing journeys. United our voices our stronger.
Moderator Kara Rubinstein Deyerin. Panelists include Angela Tucker, Jon Baime, and Shirley Muñoz Newson.

Presented by

avatar Kara Rubinstein Deyerin, JD, LLM

Kara Rubinstein Deyerin, JD, LLM

RTK Founder & President

Kara was born and raised in Seattle, Washington. She married her high-school sweetheart and together they traveled for a number of years before attending college. Kara went on to receive a BA, MA, a law degree from the George Washington University, and later a LLM from the University of Washington. Her husband and sons constantly keep her on her toes. Any moment of free quiet time she can find is spent designing, reading, and cooking; but storytelling is her passion. 

In January 2018, she wanted to see where in Africa her father’s family came from. Her over-the-counter DNA test revealed she was 50% something, but she had zero African DNA. This meant the man on her birth certificate couldn’t possibly be her genetic father. She lost her bi-racial identity with the click of a mouse. Kara discovered she was 50% Jewish. The DNA pandora’s box she opened led to an identity crisis. Because there were few resources for people with misattributed parentage experiences, she co-founded Right to Know, a nonprofit organization dedicated to advancing the fundamental human right to know your genetic identity through education, mental health initiatives, and advocacy. 

Kara is leading advocate for genetic identity rights and people impacted by misattributed parentage. She has appeared on many podcasts, in multiple television interviews and articles, and has been a frequent speaker on her DNA surprise, the right to know, and the complex intersection of genetic information, identity, and family dynamics. She recently published the “My Re-Birthday Book: This is My Story: for adoptees, donor conceived, and people with an NPE, who are misattributed, or who’ve had a DNA surprise” and “Cinematic Roots: Explore Assisted Reproduction, Adoption, NPE, and DNA Surprise Terms Through Movies.”

avatar Angela Tucker

Angela Tucker

Angela Tucker is a Black woman, adopted from foster care by white parents. She has heard this microaggression her entire life, usually from well-intentioned strangers who view her adoptive parents as noble saviors.  She is grateful for many aspects of her life, but being transracially adopted involves layers of rejection, loss and complexity that cannot be summed up so easily. Tucker centers the experiences of adoptees through sharing deeply personal stories, well-researched history and engrossing anecdotes from mentorship sessions with adopted youth. These perspectives challenge the fairy-tale narrative of adoption giving way to a fuller story that includes the impacts of racism, classism, family, love and belonging. She is the Executive Director of The Adoptee Mentoring Society.

avatar Jon Baime

Jon Baime

Where do I come from? For some, the question has a simple answer – for others, the truth can be much more complicated. With the rise in popularity of at-home DNA tests, it’s now easier than ever for people to uncover their family history and, sometimes, things their parents wish would stay buried. Interested in learning more about his family heritage, director Jon Baime took an at-home DNA test and uncovered a family secret that has been hidden for half a century. Featuring in-depth interviews with Jon’s siblings as well as a treasure trove of family photos and films spanning 70 years, FILLING IN THE BLANKS takes audiences on a journey as Jon explores the meaning behind his discovery and expands on what it means to be family.

avatar Shirley Muñoz Newson

Shirley Muñoz Newson

Shirley Muñoz Newson is a Gillette, Wyoming wife, mother, and grandmother who courageously wrote her memoir, The Little Dark One: A True Story of Switched at Birth to inspire others and show anything is possible with faith.

Shirley’s life was flipped upside down on April 7, 2001, one day before her 43rd birthday, when she received the DNA test results that would change her life forever. Everything she knew about herself wasn’t true.

Thanks to years of therapy, her unshakable faith in God, and the encouragement of her family, Shirley found the strength to tell her story and continue her own healing journey.

Creative Workshops – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

11:00pm-2:00pm | Various rooms

Answering the Call to Write Your Memoir & Claim Your Story
The workshop will cover how to start, structure, and enrich your memoir, tackle self-doubt, and use writing as a tool for growth, with resources for further development in the craft of adoption, assisted reproduction, and NPE-centric memoir writing, as well as steps to publishing.
Patricia Knight Meyer and Marylee MacDonald

Caring for Our Ancient Biology: Neurographic Art & Mindfulness
Participants will engage in accessible breathwork and gentle physical movements, suitable for any position, to regulate the nervous system. Learn to create your own neurographic art as a tool for daily mindfulness, offering a personalized and interactive experience in self-awareness and stress relief.
Lorah Gerald

Connecting to Your Inner Child
Through engaging activities, participants will rediscover the joy and freedom of creativity and play. Emphasizing fun as a fundamental aspect of well-being, the session includes creative healing writing exercises designed to inspire and maintain a lasting bond with one’s inner child.
Annette Becklund, MSW, LCSW, NBCCH

Your Story, Your Power: How Telling Your Story Can Change Your Life
Discover the transformative impact of breaking silence within the NPE, adoptee, and DCP communities. We’ll explore why some stories stay hidden and how this affects us. Learn healthy ways to tell your story and find safe places to share it.
Alexis Hourselt

Funny Side Up: Boosting Your Narratives With Humor
This is a unique opportunity to learn how to inject humor into every story you tell. We’ll survey multiple methods of communicating in the modern world so you can impart your new skills on the daily – all skill levels and experience welcome.
Lauren LoGiudice

Significant Others/Loved Ones: Challenges & Opportunities
This can be an emotional time for everyone. Discover tools for self-care and support for your partner while they navigate a DNA surprise or the question of reunion.
Bill Mackinnon

Additional Info

Creative workshops offer a nurturing space for individuals navigating the complexities of adoption, assisted reproduction, NPEs, or DNA surprises to process their experiences through artistic expression, fostering healing and personal growth.

  • Answering the Call to Write Your Memoir & Claim Your Story
  • Caring for Our Ancient Biology: Neurographic Art & Mindfulness
  • Connecting to Your Inner Child
  • Funny Side Up: Boosting Your Narratives With Humor
  • Your Story, Your Power: How Telling Your Story Can Change Your Life
  • Significant Others/Loved Ones: Challenges & Opportunities

Presented by

avatar Patricia Knight Meyer

Patricia Knight Meyer

A baby-scoop era black-market “adoptee,” Patricia was sold along a curb outside a Texas hospital and grew up with no legal identity, date of birth, legal adoption, or court appointed guardian. Thus, despite one shady attorney’s best laid plans, at 18 she set out to unravel her mystery and obtain a legal birth certificate. At 40, she reunited with both biological parents, and she is currently seeking representation for her memoir, in which she shares how she uncovered the dirty deal that drove a life of deception, fueled her “adoptive” parents’ life-long addictions and stole her true identity.

Born with a love of writing, she earned a Journalism degree from the University of Texas, has been published in numerous newspapers and magazines, and dedicates her life to inspiring creativity in others. Active in adoption and writing communities, she blogs about her reunion experience at MyAdoptedLife.com and administers the Adoption Constellation Search and Reunion Facebook support group. She is a member of the National Association of Memoir Writers, the Adoption Knowledge Affiliates, and The Writers’ League of Texas. Bouncing between the Texas Hill Country and New Orleans, she works as a book publicist and content strategist, and attends an annual writing retreat in Costa Rica. A video of her reunion with her birth father has almost 300,000 views on YouTube.

avatar Marylee MacDonald

Marylee MacDonald

Marylee MacDonald is the author of Surrender, a memoir about growing up adopted and the surrender of her first-born child.  While raising her other four children, she worked as a carpenter and co-owner of Working Women Construction and as a freelance editor for Old-House Journal, Sunset, and Better Homes & Gardens. When her youngest graduated from college, she was able to quit her day job and write full time. Her short stories have won the Barry Hannah Prize, the American Literary Review Fiction Prize, the Jeanne M. Leiby Memorial Chapbook Award, the Matt Clark Prize, and the Ron Rash Award. Her novel, Montpelier Tomorrow, won a Gold Medal for Drama from Readers’ Favorites International Book Awards, and Surrender was a winner in the Wishing Shelf Book Awards. In her free time, she loves to visit historic sites, do detective work in European archives, and spend time with her family.

avatar Lorah Gerald

Lorah Gerald

Hello! My name is Lorah Gerald. I am a same race, domestic, Baby Scoop Era, preRoe adoptee. I post as The Adopted Chameleon on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, Patreon and Pinterest. I started these pages after reunion with my biological family. Reunion was a rollercoaster of emotions. It opened up feelings I had suppressed. I found writing and being creative was therapeutic. My pages connected me with others that were experiencing adoption trauma. Since that time I have been educating people on the trauma of adoption and how we can help heal ourselves. 

To better deal with my own trauma, I became a certified Kundalini yoga instructor, TIYT-Trauma Informed Yoga Therapy instructor, and Reiki Master.  With my training in trauma, yoga therapy and energy healing, I share these tools online and in person in my weekly yoga classes and workshops. Working with these techniques, I have learned to better understand my own trauma and how to help others in their path to be the best version of themselves.

When we heal ourselves, we heal the world.

avatar Annette L Becklund, MSW, LCSW, NBCCH

Annette L Becklund, MSW, LCSW, NBCCH

Annette L Becklund, MSW, LCSW & Assoc LLC

Annette L Becklund is a therapist for over twenty years, specializing in Developmental Disabilities, a Mental Health Consultant, writer, and workshop facilitator. Originally from New Jersey, and now in Florida, she is a person who found out her dad was not her biological father. Annette is an NPE (Not Parent Expected) woman who is a professional member of The MPE Counseling Collective, and a member of several support groups with approximately 10,000 members. Annette and her colleagues published a professional study in the Journal of Integrative Medicine, published an article on NPEs in In Focus, a magazine for therapists in Florida, and has spoken on Ancestry Discoveries and related treatment. She facilitates a Facebook page called Ancestry Discoveries and has been a guest on a podcast on the same topic. Author of “Ancestry Discoveries: What Happens Under the Sheets Doesn’t Stay There” available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. Annette self-published Warren is Wonderful, a children’s book for children with autism. She loves spending time with her husband, Ray, a talented artist, her three pups: Abbie, Zeva, Rafiki and cat, Spirit.

For more info: AnnetteLBecklund.com and AncestryDiscoveries.com.

avatar Alexis Hourselt

Alexis Hourselt

DNA Surprises Podcast

In July 2021, Alexis Hourselt received her Ancestry DNA kit results. To her shock, she discovered that the man she’d called “Dad” for 35 years was not her biological father. 

Alexis also learned through her DNA test results that she is not a multi-ethnic Mexican woman, as she’d believed, but African American. These two discoveries caused a complete upheaval of her identity. 

Alexis created the DNA Surprises podcast to provide a space for NPEs, donor-conceived people, and adoptees (and their families) to find comfort in the stories of those who are on similar journeys. She also aims to raise awareness of DNA surprises and ultimately create more openness and honesty around parentage. Since her discovery, Alexis has become a prominent voice in the DNA surprise community, advocating for truth, transparency, and healing.

In 2022, she founded the DNA Surprise Retreat with Debbie Olson of the DNA Surprise Network. The Retreat serves as a bridge to healing for the DNA surprise community.

avatar Lauren LoGiudice

Lauren LoGiudice

Misfit Variety Show

Lauren LoGiudice is an accomplished comedian, actor, and author of Amazon Kindle Best Seller Inside Melania: What I Know About Melania Trump by Impersonating Her. Her work has been featured by The New York Times, BBC, Bust Magazine, McSweeney’s Internet Tendency, Hyperallergic, among others. Her writing has been called “criminal.” Her TV and film credits include Veep, Brave the Dark and Galaxy360. Moth StorySLAM Champ. In addition to her comedy album, Misfits: A Comedy Album you can also hear Melania Trump’s Rockin’ Right-Wing Christmas Album, available on all major streaming platforms.

Lauren delves into deeply flawed and painfully idiosyncratic characters. She has embodied some of the world’s most mysterious cultural icons, including Greta Garbo, Melania Trump, Mary Poppins, and the women in her Italian-American family.

Currently, Lauren continues to work on creating comedy through the lens of her unique personal experience with videos on every platform that will let her while producing her podcast Reconcile the Aisle on Radio Misfits.

She lives in New York City where she downplays every great thing that’s ever happened to her.

avatar Bill Mackinnon

Bill Mackinnon

Bill has been a healer, teacher and facilitator for 40+ years. He has been leading small and large groups, ranging from short term personal growth and structured groups, through long term abuse survivor groups. He believes in our inherent capacity to grow throughout life and become more of ourselves. His first career was in psychotherapy in residential treatment, inpatient hospital, outpatient mental health and private practice. He served individuals children & adolescents and families. His second career was teaching/facilitating communication classes in the North America, Central & South America, Europe, the Middle East and South Asia. The principles of change and growth were equally effective in both careers. Helping people to grow, whether challenged by difficulties or aspirations are the most gratifying and fulfilling experiences.

Lunch – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

noon-1:00pm | Pre-function area & Ball room

You’ll choose your box lunch option (sandwich, salad, gluten free, or vegetarian, or vegetarian gluten free), eat with friends, take some time to meet authors, podcasters, and our exhibitors, or work on your creative projects.

Speaker Forums – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

2:15pm-3:15pm | various rooms

Career Identity and Work Satisfaction: Tangled Roots as an Opportunity for Growth
Reflect on your career choices and work attitudes and understand the influence of their unique origins, and use this self-awareness for positive growth.
L. Michelle Tullier, PhD

Impacts from the Loss of Genetic Mirroring
We define genetic mirroring—the recognition of familial traits in oneself—and the implications of its absence for people who are raised without being genetically related to one or both of their parents.
Jeanette Yoffe, MA, MFT

Love by Design: The Pause, The Shift, The Self-Care.
We address the common barriers to self-love and provide actionable strategies to incorporate regular self-care practices into daily routines. Learn not just the ‘what’ but the ‘why’ and ‘how’ of self-care, moving beyond lists to practical application, with the ultimately aim to make self-care part of your daily life.
Debbie Olson

Spirituality Salon: Finding, Reconnecting, and Sharing Your Origin Story
This interactive and experiential session supports you finding the redemption (or absurdity) in your story. You are given suggestions, with story examples, of how to save it privately or share it publicly as a “spiritual heirloom” in mosaic, music, movement, or other media.
Michele Kriegman

Using DNA’s Biomarkers to Solve Mental Health Mysteries
Wired BioHealth helps people struggling with addiction, mental health issues, or trauma by providing them a window into their own genetic biomarkers. It’s a way to literally see epigenetics in action.
Beth Syverson and Dr. Evelyn Higgins

Additional Info

You will have many great topics to choose from during this one-hour speaker time slot with our fabulous speaker workshops.

  • Career Identity and Work Satisfaction: Tangled Roots as an Opportunity for Growth.
  • Impacts from the Loss of Genetic Mirroring
  • Love by Design: The Pause, The Shift, The Self-Care.
  • Spirituality Salon: Finding, Reconnecting, and Sharing Your Origin Story
  • Using DNA’s Biomarkers to Solve Mental Health Mysteries.

Presented by

avatar L. Michelle Tullier, PhD

L. Michelle Tullier, PhD

Careers Uncomplicated

Dr. Michelle Tullier is an NPE and nationally certified career counselor with more than 30 years’ experience helping people navigate the practical and emotional sides of career development and job search for more fulfilling and successful work lives. She served as Executive Director of the Georgia Tech career center, as one of Monster.com’s first online career coaches, and in regional leadership roles with a global outplacement firm serving clients from individual contributors to executives. She holds a PhD in Counseling Psychology from UCLA and BA from Wellesley College.

Michelle is the founder of Careers Uncomplicated, a full-time career coaching practice that serves clients remotely across the U.S.(www.careersuncomplicated.com). In 2023 she earned one of the highest honors in her profession, the Outstanding Career Practitioner Award from the National Career Development Association. Since learning of her NPE status in 2016, Michelle has done deep and difficult work to process her new identity and has developed a special interest in how MPE experiences can impact career choices, career identities, and attitudes toward work. (Tullier is pronounced “tool-yay.”)

avatar Leslie Pate Mckinnon, LCSW

Leslie Pate Mckinnon, LCSW

Leslie Pate Mackinnon has maintained a private psychotherapy practice for four decades. She resides in Atlanta and presents both nationally and internationally on issues that impact families conceived through adoption and third-party reproduction. She’s been on GOOD MORNING AMERICA w/ Robin Roberts, and on CNN discussing the impact of the internet on adoption. She was featured in DAN RATHER’s investigative report; ADOPTION OR ABDUCTION and was most recently on the Katie Couric show along with her oldest son Pete.

Leslie’s story is included in the book; The Girls Who Went Away, and the documentary A GIRL LIKE HER. Drawn to the field by placing her two firstborn sons for adoption when she was a teenager, her passion today is to educating as many therapists as possible, before she drops! She currently serves on the Evan B. Donaldson’s Board of Directors. For fun she reads voraciously, listens to jazz and sings in a gospel choir.

For more information about Leslie, please visit www.lesliepatemackinnon.com.

avatar Lena Skahill

Lena Skahill

Lena (Eileen) Skahill is an adjunct professor of Sociology at the University of Colorado Colorado Springs. She has been teaching courses in Adoption and Family Studies and Environmental Sociology which are available to students in the School of Social Work, Women’s and Ethnic Studies and The Humanities departments.  Lena is also adoptee (1966) and engaged in reunion with both of her first families. She has volunteered in varying capacities with adoption non-profits over the last decade and dedicated her academic career toward the pursuit of teaching and sharing the unique lived experiences of all members of the adoption constellation.

Lena has conducted research in adoption studies over the course of her career. Her early research, On the Outside Looking In: Adoptee Perspectives on Reunion Relationships explored the evolution of long term reunions between adoptees and their first families with outcomes of the study shared at academic conferences across the country.  Her current qualitative/photo essay-based research study titled, Nurtured by Nature: Adoption and Foster Care Experiences and the Healing Power of Nature is meant to shine a light on the adoption and foster care journeys and the ways in which nature serves as a modality for healing, growth, and joy for all impacted by these lived experiences.  Research for the study has been completed and Lena anticipates data to be published in 2024.

avatar Debbie Smith-Olson

Debbie Smith-Olson

RTK Director of Support & DNA Surprise Network

Debbie Olson is a Certified Life Coach, founder of DNA Surprise Network and co-founder of DNA Surprise Retreat, and a member of the Right to Know board. She helps others navigate life’s path after having a DNA Surprise, having experienced her own. Debbie is a former paralegal with over 20 years of experience in that field.  Possessing skills of empathy, understanding, and great communication, she is an ideal person to work with. She believes no matter where you are now, it is where you desire to be that is most important. 

Debbie was raised believing her biological father did not want her, and eventually she was told he was deceased. After taking an over-the-counter DNA test, she matched with an unknown half-sister in 2019. With this connection, she learned her biological father was alive, and had in fact looked for her.  

Debbie is an advocate for animals serving on the board of East Idaho Spay Neuter Coalition and is a key player in the Snake River Animal Shelter’s biggest yearly fundraiser. Both are nonprofit 501(c)3 organizations that help save animals lives. 

Debbie can be found on Instagram and Facebook at DNA Surprise Network or at DNASurpriseNetwork.com.  

avatar Michele Kriegman

Michele Kriegman

Michele Kriegman, was born, relinquished, and adopted in New York City. She graduated from Wellesley College and received a Japanese Ministry of Education graduate scholarship to Sophia University’s Department of Mass Communications in Tokyo. There she began a journalism career at ABC News, followed by multi-year assignments with Nippon TV’s top-rated morning show, among others, and was a producer on a Gabriel Award-winning documentary on Peace Studies in Boston and Hiroshima.

Although she is a storyteller by nature, like many adoptees she was missing her own backstory well into adulthood. Finding her birth-father in New York before the state opened its records helped complete it. Most recently, a DNA test kit that came as a Chrismukkah present revealed an unknown adoptee sister!

Having worked in a second career as a cybersecurity professional for over fifteen years, Michele now devotes herself to writing full time, focusing on two genres: cybercrime mysteries, and search and reunion novels. Her birth-father’s complex effort at redemption later in life inspired the 2022 novel Finding Faith: The Birth-Fathers’ Club Series. Other novels in the series are ROCK MEMOIR and From a Desert City by the Sea. She reclaimed her birth-name, Suzanne Gilbert, to write her 2014 debut novel Tapioca Fire.

Website: https://reunionlandpress.com/

eBookshop: https://www.amazon.com/author/michele

avatar Beth Syverson

Beth Syverson

Unraveling Adoption

Beth Syverson is an adoptive mom of a 20-year-old son Joey, who has been struggling to find his healing path for the past several years because of addiction and suicidality. They created the Unraveling Adoption podcast together in 2021 to help other families struggling with similar issues. Beth also runs a free support group for adoptive parents called APtitude, and she recently became a Certified Coach, working primarily with adoptive parents. Through the podcast, support group, coaching, and events, she hopes to help adoptive parents become more self-aware and to work on their own issues so they can become more emotionally attuned parents. And she hopes to raise awareness about adoption trauma to the wider community. Beth speaks out on the topics of addiction, adoption, mental health, and parenting in order to help families heal. Find out more at UnravelingAdoption.com. Contact Beth at Beth@UnravelingAdoption.com.

Unraveling Adoption

avatar Dr. Evelyn Higgins

Dr. Evelyn Higgins

Chief Executive Officer and inventor of the patent-pending panel utilized by Wired For Addiction™, Dr. Evelyn Higgins is a recognized international expert in the epidemiology of addiction. With 34 years in clinical practice, Dr. Higgins has dedicated over 16 years to Research and Development in the science of addiction recovery. A panelist at the 2022 International Society of Substance Use Professionals Annual Conference in Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates, the 2022 International Gambling Conference in Auckland, New Zealand, the International Society of Addiction Medicine 2022 Congress in Valletta, Malta, and 2021 Nominee for Modern Healthcare’s Top 25 Innovators in Healthcare, Dr. Higgins finds herself at the nexus of epigenetics, neuroscience, and addiction.

During her career as a Doctor of Physical and Function medicine, Dr. Higgins had the honor of advising the U.S. Surgeon General, being an Olympic torchbearer, as well as serving as a 1996 Olympic team doctor. The host of a nationally syndicated, Gracie Award winning radio program, Dr. Higgins has interviewed the Executive Director of the World Health Organization, Director of the United Nations Entity For Gender Equality & the Empowerment of Women, as well as others from various health, wellness and equity backgrounds. An author, speaker, clinician, Dr. Higgins is a graduate of the State University of New York. Her postgraduate studies at Harvard Medical School in Body, Mind, and Spirit medicine have an emphasis on resiliency. She is a Diplomate of the American College of Addictionology and Compulsive Disorders, a Diplomate of the American Board of Disability, specializing in pain management, a graduate of New York Chiropractic college, as well as a Certified Addiction Professional.

Break, Refreshments, & Snack – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

3:15pm-4:00pm | Heritage Ball Room Pre-Funcation Area

Take a break, enjoy a snack, have a beverage. Check out the authors, podcasters, tik tok-ers, and exhibitors if you haven’t yet had a chance.  

Speaker Panels – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

4:00pm-5:30pm | various rooms

Enjoy Speaker Panels
The session aims to reframe estrangement as a step towards liberation and authenticity and will explore the importance of support systems and the health benefits of setting boundaries over remaining in toxic environments.
Moderator Lora K. Joy. Lily Wood, Cassandra Adams, and Justin Hvitfeldt-Matthews

Genetic Attraction: The Foundation of Reunion and the Preparation Essential for Enduring Relationship
Reunion highlights the deep emotional gap created by genetic disconnection. This workshop reinforces the healing aspects of reconnection, and prepares participants to maneuver surprising emotions, often arising at mach speed in the early stages of connection to genetic kin.
Leslie Pate Mackinnon, LCSW, Denise Carroll, Lena Skahill, and Jennifer Schweibinz

How to Be an Effective Legislative Advocate II
This session is designed to (1) equip us to understand and effectively navigate the legislative process, and (2) learn from real-life examples.
Rich Uhrlaub and guests

Male Perspectives on Adoption, Assisted Reproduction, and NPEs
This panel addresses the often underrepresented male perspective in the realms of adoption, donor conception, and NPEs. We explore and acknowledge the emotional experiences and challenges men face in these situations.
Moderator Damon Davis; J Steven Osborne, Ryan Kramer, and Fred Nicora

Tips for Building Lasting Relationships with New Siblings
This panel offers insights into the dynamics of forming relationships with siblings raised by a newly discovered genetic parent. Sibling sets share their experiences, reflecting on the joys and challenges they faced. Participants will gain practical advice on how to approach, connect with, and build relationships with newly discovered siblings, turning what might be a daunting experience into an opportunity for family growth and enrichment.
Moderator Deidra McGee. Kris Page Swenson and her brother David Page and Jodi Girard and her brother Jason Taylor

Trailblazers: Impacting Change in the Adoption, Assisted Reproduction, and NPE Communities
We sit down and chat with the people who paved the way for where we are today. They opened the public dissuasion about adoption, assisted reproduction, amd NPEs. Moderator: Jennifer Fahlsing. Catherine St Claire, Wendy Kramer, Mimi Janes, and Dr. Joyce Maguire Pavao

Additional Info

All attendees can choose from various speaker panels with 3-4 speakers and questions and answer time.

  • Coming Soon

Movie Night – Saturday

Saturday 3/21

8:00pm-10:00pm | TBD

Our movie choice is coming soon“TBD”

Additional Info

Don’t worry, we have the snacks.

Sunday 3/22

Breakfast & Community – Sunday

Sunday 3/22

8:00am-9:00am | Heritage Ball Room Pre-Funcation Area

Join us for breakfast and take a few moments to say hi to someone you haven’t met yet.

Keynote Speaker – Sunday

Sunday 3/22

9:00am-10:00am | Heritage Ballroom

We are going to have an amazing closing speaker… more to come.

Additional Info

Through this process, we reclaim agency over our experiences, focusing on empowering aspects of our stories and fostering healing. Ultimately, we unlock the potential to live authentically and intentionally.

Presented by

avatar Dr Abigail Hasberry

Dr Abigail Hasberry

Dr. Abigail Hasberry is a transracial adoptee, executive leadership coach, and licensed marriage and family therapist associate. With a background in education as a former teacher and principal, she has experience in private, traditional public, and charter schools. Dr. Hasberry holds a Bachelor of Science degree in African American studies and sociology, a Master of Arts in teaching, K-12, a Master of Education in counseling and development, and a Ph.D. in curriculum & instruction. In addition, she is currently completing a Master of Science degree in industrial/organizational behavior.

Dr. Hasberry’s research and publications focus on identity development, diversity, and the experiences of black teachers in private, affluent, and predominantly white schools. She is also actively involved in training therapists on adoption informed practices and has been a guest speaker on adoption, identity development, and trauma in various podcasts and webinars. She is in the process of publishing her memoir, Adopting Privilege.

Beyond her professional achievements, Dr. Hasberry is married and has raised three children. Her personal journey as an adoptee and birth mom fuels her dedication to supporting adult adoptees and birth mothers in their own paths of healing and growth.

Closing Activity – Sunday

Sunday 3/22

10:15am-11:15am | Heritage Ballroom

We’ll come together to spend our last bit of time together to reflect and rejuvenate.

Additional Info

We will stand together.

Tiny baby feet standing in the cupped hands of a human. Baby toes are wrapped around the forefingers of each hand. One thumb, from each hand, rests on top of each baby foot.